My take on Love and relationship ,..
To start with, I want to make it clear, i am not a expert, just want to share my thoughts and there is no better time to put together these thoughts because today is very big day as per as love is concern.
Though I think, Love needs no proof, no day to celebrate, no cards to show your love, all it needs is a hand to hold in difficult times and good times.
So what is love?
I know it can’t be express by words.. but if we still try… i mean i am trying..
Love is not ownership, love isn't possession. Love me, love my dog. That's not love at all. Love is respect. Love is understanding, acceptance. Love doesn't come with rules or instructions and definitely not a decision to make... it's a feeling that just happens.
Most amazing thing about True Love is ~ S'times even the world makes no difference. And when you are in love that one person makes ur world.
How Ironic..Isn’t it ?? !!
So the Big Question is, why we like someone, I know there is so many things but what I understand~
Someone likes you because your relationship is beyond stereotypes and sex...someone likes u because they just do and you make it special for her or him, Like ~ “ Treat me like I matter, because I truly do. I'm an amazing person, show me that you recognize it. <3”
Accept or not we all feel the same way !!
Someone likes you just because u make their heart sing...because they like spending time with u...dinner becomes an experience
Someone likes you just because you are who u are. S/he doesn't think u are wrong or right. All they know is they want to be with u.
Someone likes u because u make them smile...because u light a candle and refuse to curse the Darkness.
And now the confusing part ~
It's funny how you fall in love with the most unexpected person at the most unexpected time & sometimes it is really hard to determine whether you really have feelings for someone or you are just carried away by the good things they do. I see lotz of couples realize the fact that they are not in Love, after spending some times with each other and they realize the fact that their love is nothing but Infatuation or attraction !!
This is the case most of the time because~ There's a reason behind it, think carefully, why you're heart is located on your left, because its not always Right. :-)
So what are the things we need to make a relationship special and working or to start a new one ?! What I experience and learn from general opinion ~
Don't take anything for granted.
Sometimes we all need is deep intimacy and sometimes space. Remember, Distance is healer sometimes.
In a relationship, there will always be one who knows how to understand a lot & the other who needs so much to be understood.
Also, A good relationship does not depend on how good an understanding we have..but it depends on how better we avoid misunderstandings.
Never make assumptions on someone based on past experiences with someone else.
When you accept somebody, you accept their past too, don't hold it against them later.
If you aren't happy being single you will never be happy in a relationship. Get your own life and love it first, then share it.
Don’t date the most beautiful girl in the world, date the girl that makes your world the most beautiful.
And for long distance Relationship, what I really feel, Distance does not ruin relationships. You don't have to see someone everyday to be in love.
For all the Devdas and Dasi (HeartBroken) ~ The best can't find you until you put the worst behind you. Remember, Milna bichadna, bichadna milna... Life never tires of this hide n seek.
Love comes to those who still hope after disappointment, who still believe after betrayal, and who still love after they've been hurt.
Fall in love, NOT IN LINE.
To finish with~
Life has its ups and downs and so does relationship, but true relationship does last forever, doesn’t it? And all this, Single, taken, in a relationship; those are just terms. Your actions determine your status.
Guys and Girls, Its V Day(If you celebrate), something to believe in! I believe the love that we feel for each other is His gift to us.
About Me~ J
I love everybody. Some I love to be around, some I love to avoid, and others I would love to punch in the face.
Note: All these superb lines are not mine. The real source of this article is my thought and some collection of wonderful lines.( Copyright issue you know!! J )
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